Thursday, 5 October 2017

Learning Not To Care


I have reached a point in my life where I am through with trying to please other people and I have adapted a real ‘fuck it’, kind of mentality. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to share this here on my blog. I know for a fact that some people are going to take it in the wrong way. But, these days no matter what you say, there will be somebody that doesn’t understand where you’re coming from. So, I thought that I would just put it out there and let people take it how they want to. It has taken a while for me to be at this point in my life, and to tell the truth I have never been happier, so I really wanted to share it with people.
My whole life I have had to contend with bullies. People tend to either love me or hate me. The people that hate me, seem to really fucking hate me. I wear my heart on my sleeve and tell people how it is and lots of people don’t like that. I will never conform to try and fit into the crowd, I would rather be my own person with my own views and feel good about myself at the end of the day rather than try and fit in with people who don’t care for me. And recently, I have been up against this hell of a lot more and in the end, it really did get me down.
 





I can remember sitting down with my nan one day and I actually cried about how these people were making me feel. I am not the kind of person to cry, let alone over people that are nasty. But, they really started to get to me and in the end, everything that I was feeling just built up and ended up getting me down. It was my nan that just said that we all get to a point in our lives that we no longer care, we don’t care what people think about us and if somebody doesn’t like you then it is just like water off a ducks back. And everything that she was saying just really hit home and got through to me. My nan is the strongest woman that you could ever meet and if that is the way that she lives, then I want to be on the same wavelength!
So, I did what I had to do. I stopped being shy and trying to fit in with people. I really couldn’t care less what people think about me. I know that some people don’t like me, and I am very much ok with that. Not everybody has to like everybody, it would be a very boring life if we did. To put it bluntly, I’m not going to arse lick people that I just couldn’t care less about just to have friends. So, I just stayed true to me and stopped with the people that made me feel with way and I cut all of the nastiness out of my life and I feel hell of a lot better for it.
Like I said at the beginning of this post. I didn’t write this to be a rant or to ramble on for months on end, I just wanted to share how I’ve been feeling. There are people in my life that I truly love and enjoy being around and they are the people that I want to be in my life. Even though I am stuck with some of the people, it doesn’t mean that I am going to change who I am or arse lick in order to try and fit in with them and for them to like me. I know that everybody wants friends, but I have true friends that are worth more their weight in gold.
I just wanted to write this to remind people to stay confident, be true to yourself and don’t take shit from anybody. If somebody doesn’t like you or you don’t agree with the popular opinion just stick to your guns. It had made me so much happier since I have been like this, all it took was some wise words from my nan. Nothing in this life is permanent and if there is something out there making you unhappy, then make a change. Hold your head up high, be true to yourself and try and finish the day with a smile every singe day!
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  1. I was JUST talking to my friends last weekend about how you know you've reached adulthood when you stop giving a crap about what others think!!

    www.chausadventure.com

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    1. I feel like we all reach this point at some time, and it is honestly so refreshing!

      Danielle xx

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  2. Love this, it is so important to work to not care what others say!!

    xx Sofia | SOFIAADOT

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    1. Exactly, thank you for reading sweetie!

      Danielle xx

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  3. Life is so much better without toxic people in it so definitely just focus on your true friends and family who care about you xx

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    1. Exactly, we just have to put ourselves first!

      Danielle xx

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  4. I love this so much! It is so important and a great moment when you learn not to care about what others say xx

    Hannah | luxuryblush

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    1. Exactly, I think we all get to a point where we just stop caring!

      Danielle xx

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  5. Thanks so much for sharing this lovely! Toxic people are a no no! xx

    Nev | Miss Nev

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  6. Yes!! It is really important to be with people that love us and respect us. I stopped being friends with people who didn't care and remembered our friendship when they wanted something, and by the time they got it from me,they disappeared. I don't miss them at all! x

    Yiota
    PinkDaisyLoves

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    1. Exactly, it just makes you realise who is genuinely important in your life!

      Danielle xx

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